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@adhdeanasl @ohmu then it's useful, perhaps, to point out that Paul was born Saul, Sarah was born Sarai, and calling people by chosen names is something that even shows up in the Bible. There's no real excuse for not calling someone what they ask you to call them, except that people are human and occasionally screw up in various ways (and they should apologize when that happens). But doing it intentionally is not ok.
